Friday, 10 April 2009

deepest love...

Amaran dari Kabinet Baru yaaa! Entri ni takdela ilmiah sngt pon dan takde kaitan langsung ngn kehangatan kabinet 2009 yg sdg hangat diperkatakan. Ini hanya review dari Chapter 8 from 'buku di atas rak aku'... :)

Wahh.. agk cool jugak yer membaca point2 bernas dlm buku tuh. tak sia2 saya membelinya pada suatu ketika dahulu.. sorg kawan tu siap bli dua buah sbb nk kasi kt 'someone special' beliau..hehehe.. bagus tol! mmg tepat la caption kat buku tu "It is an invaluable tool for developing deeper and more satisfying relationships"... Wah!! da bleh agak kot apa tajuk bukunya..:)

Okay.. gamba kat bawah ni pon da meaningful abesssss..wakakaka..





Chapter 8


Men and women generally are unaware that they have different emotional needs. This 'direction' maybe will help us to improve our relationships with the opposite sex when we don't know what else to do:

Primary Love needs of women and men

Woman need to receive
1- Caring

2- Understanding
3- Respect
4- Devotion
5- Validation
6- Reassurance

Men need to receive
1- Trust
2- Acceptance
3- Appreciation
4- Admiration
5- Approval
6- Encouragement

She needs caring and he needs trust.. She needs understanding and he needs acceptance.. She needs respect and he needs appreciation.. She needs devotion and he needs admiration.. She needs validation and he needs approval.. She needs reassurance and he needs encouragement..


Huh.. complicated jgk yer bila involve relationship man and woman ni kan.. nk takmau mendalami or takmau amik kisah,tak bleh plak kan. Yerlaa.. kalo da ada jodoh, sure kna kawen nnt n kna memahami la seorang makhluk bernama lelaki ni kan.. dan samala lelaki pon terpksala memahami perempuan ini!!huhhu..

Erm...tatau da nk kasi comment ape da.. sbb lum khatam lagi buku nih.hehehe.. khatam bila da ada anak 3 kot..muahaha - tu pon kalo ada org nk kawen ngn aku n memberi zuriat kt aku la..hikhik-

13 comments:

haney said...

hehe...

then u know wat to give and get dear!..hoho..hebat mc laa baca buku gaya gini seh..hehe

fazillefrere said...

best to Quote:

" She needs caring and he needs trust.. She needs understanding and he needs acceptance.. She needs respect and he needs appreciation.. She needs devotion and he needs admiration.. She needs validation and he needs approval.. She needs reassurance and he needs encouragement.. "

FaZiLa said...

haney~~

aku pon rasa nk tunduk sembah bumi baca buku cenggini..muahahaha..da lama pon bli..tp dua menjak ni jer br rasa nk fokus btol2 bacanya.hahaha

ermmm...kna belaja menerima seadanya dan bnyk bersabar lg tawakkal.. uuuu...

FaZiLa said...

padel~~

mmg sngt best..uuuu...itulah discovering our different emotional needs :)

moon said...

amboi2 mc laa. bersemangat waja. chayok! =)

:: !zyan :: said...

men are from mars n women r from venus ke nih?

huhh..akak dah lama dah bace buku tu. Skrg mcm kene belek2 balik kot...aahax

fatimah said...

haha, ko dah bukak balik buka buku tu. Mmg patut di baca :)

roslini ashari said...

hehehehehe...slalu tengok. tapi tak pernah baca. =)

lutfi lukman said...

gile malas aku nak baca buku~

tp slalu buku ckp benda yg kita mmg dah sedia maklum dah. Cuma bila kita baca, kita lebih amik perhatian, sbb BUKU yg ckp camtu.

tp kalo rasa bagus, baca je la, x rugi pun. huhu

FaZiLa said...

moon~~

ntah knapa dpt smngt perwaja steel belek2 buku nih..kan bli ngn muni aritu..ekekekeke..

kak izyan~~

ermm..ahaaa..mcm btol je tjuk buku tuh..hihi..ermm...ader ape2 jgk ker akak?hahahaha..

fatimah~~

tringat ms ym ngn ko mlm tuh..ermm..kdg2 leh pcaye gk teori buku nih.tp takle 100% la..uhhuu..

FaZiLa said...

rose~~

ko mmg slalu tgk sbb slalu dtg rmh aku..hahaha..wess...nk pnjam he's just not that into you:)

lutfi~~

aku pon pemalas bc buku gk.ni aku belek2 bc yg aku rs bkenan jer.errmm..kdg2 dlm buku tu btol gk,tp ader gk tak btol nya.
takpela,baca utk tmbah pngetahuan kan..dulu time blaja, buku2 teks tu takmau baca lak..hahaha..buku cmni rajin la plak bacanya..huh!!

moon said...

asal mention kte g beli ngn mc laa. nanti kantoi la org yg beli buku dlm entri tu. hahaha

FaZiLa said...

moon~~

alamakkk..ssshhhhhh!!!!hehehe