Friday, 10 April 2009

deepest love...

Amaran dari Kabinet Baru yaaa! Entri ni takdela ilmiah sngt pon dan takde kaitan langsung ngn kehangatan kabinet 2009 yg sdg hangat diperkatakan. Ini hanya review dari Chapter 8 from 'buku di atas rak aku'... :)

Wahh.. agk cool jugak yer membaca point2 bernas dlm buku tuh. tak sia2 saya membelinya pada suatu ketika dahulu.. sorg kawan tu siap bli dua buah sbb nk kasi kt 'someone special' beliau..hehehe.. bagus tol! mmg tepat la caption kat buku tu "It is an invaluable tool for developing deeper and more satisfying relationships"... Wah!! da bleh agak kot apa tajuk bukunya..:)

Okay.. gamba kat bawah ni pon da meaningful abesssss..wakakaka..





Chapter 8


Men and women generally are unaware that they have different emotional needs. This 'direction' maybe will help us to improve our relationships with the opposite sex when we don't know what else to do:

Primary Love needs of women and men

Woman need to receive
1- Caring

2- Understanding
3- Respect
4- Devotion
5- Validation
6- Reassurance

Men need to receive
1- Trust
2- Acceptance
3- Appreciation
4- Admiration
5- Approval
6- Encouragement

She needs caring and he needs trust.. She needs understanding and he needs acceptance.. She needs respect and he needs appreciation.. She needs devotion and he needs admiration.. She needs validation and he needs approval.. She needs reassurance and he needs encouragement..


Huh.. complicated jgk yer bila involve relationship man and woman ni kan.. nk takmau mendalami or takmau amik kisah,tak bleh plak kan. Yerlaa.. kalo da ada jodoh, sure kna kawen nnt n kna memahami la seorang makhluk bernama lelaki ni kan.. dan samala lelaki pon terpksala memahami perempuan ini!!huhhu..

Erm...tatau da nk kasi comment ape da.. sbb lum khatam lagi buku nih.hehehe.. khatam bila da ada anak 3 kot..muahaha - tu pon kalo ada org nk kawen ngn aku n memberi zuriat kt aku la..hikhik-

Thursday, 9 April 2009

women are like waves..

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
one friend who always makes her laugh.... and one who lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
a feeling of control over her destiny....

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without;
ruining the friendship...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW..
whom she can trust, whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table...
or a charming inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...

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and MEN ARE LIKE RUBBER BANDS!!


Wednesday, 8 April 2009

Nawal dan Zamani.. Fazila dan ????

Walaupon agak penat mlm ni, tapi rasa sngt berdaya jgk utk smbung ngadap tenet lg..br blk dr sungai buloh je ni..hehe.. mcm biasa, buka favourite page la.. friendster.. hohoho.. wah.. sngt bnyk update plak.. try tilik satu2, tgk yg mana berkenan!!

Wah.. nawal upload gmba our wedding!!!ternganga aku jap!!biar betik pmpuan ni da nikah.. takde gtau apepon.. smpai ati pnyer kawan.. dia classmate aku dr form 2 smpai form 3.. dan masa form 3, dia jd partner aku tuh.. kami agk rapatla..even da tak skelas ms form 4 n form 5 pon, kami ttp close.. kami pn sama uia tp dia amik English literature.. slalu gk la jmpa n lepak2 ngn bawang, munirah n nudii.. wah.. ko da kawen yer nawal!!tahniah..terharu..uuu..tkezzuttt!!tup tap da kawen!!katanya simple ceremony jer :) pasni br nk wat mjlis besar-besaran..




Nawal & Zamani

Dulu, kisah cinta dia pon agk complex (yg smpt aku taula)..rasanya husband dia skrg bkn cinta dia yg dulu..ohooo.. aku ber prasangka la.. citer sbnr aku br nk call dia esk hari..sbb mlm ni takut mnganggu lak.. setahu aku dr frenster nih, diorang ni kawen n tpksa bjauhan sbb nawal kna ngajar kt sarawak n hsband kna keje kt abu dhabi..waaaa...PJJ!!!

sanggupkah kalo anda kawen nnt, pastu kna duk berjauhan ngn suami... aduuuuuuuuhh.... sadissss gak tuh.. mcm en hisham ofismate baruku, dia citer dia tpksa bjauhan ngn wife dia slama 8tahun.. 8 tahun jugakla dia ulang alik dr kl ke perlis.. doa2 tak jd camtula yer.. merana jugak tuh.. muahahaha..

pengubat hati...

Sampai ofis pagi ni, mcm biasa.. dgn mood comel2, perkara rutin adalah pantau anak2 comel saya nih.. hati tersentuh plak tgk diorang hari nih.. huhuhuuu..sbb apa?? kurang pasti.. better korang kan jd patung, takyah duk ada perasaan..

gloria - kamu mmg comel.. sy suka gosok perut gloria yg tembam tuh.. hehehe.

skipper penguin yg degil - diala anak paling degil.. kna gosok btol2 br klua suara dia tuh..

(sume mainan saya ni bersuara tau!!hahaha)


my kuda belang - dia pon degil.. slalu takmau tgk muka saya..ahaaa..

okla..okla..oklaaa.. da melalut lebih da nih.. apepun, these toys ni mmg menghiburkan. dulu2 sy sngt berusaha pi membelinya.. bnyk memori sblm dpt diorang nih. sngup pi cari mc d mlm2 buta semata2 nk dpt diorang nih.. zirafah tinggi tu sy bli kt mc d bukit jambul, penang tau.. ms tu, pi penang utk penang international marathon. hehehe.. setiap diorang tu, ada citer tsendiri.. muahaha.. (ntah aper2) dats diorang sngt special.. hehehe..

tensen keje jer, sy main ngn diorang.. tgk diorang pn da ok.. tp kdg2 tak ilang gk tensen tuh..hahaha.. boss sy pon kdg2 dtg jenguk anak2 saya nih. sngt comel katanya.. "ilaa ni mcm anak buah saya jer".hehe..saper2 yg dtg tmpt kami ni, sure terpikat ngn anak2 saya ni.. sume teruja gosok2 n belai anak2 saya.. yeayy...sngt bhgia..kdg2 jela..hahaha.. apepon.. love them very much.. :)

Tuesday, 7 April 2009

sumenyer comel-comel..

Suker tak layan iklan kt TV? kadang2 best gak iklan kt TV nih kan.. bleh jd ikutan. hehehe.. especially iklan kt TV3 lar.. kt rmh sewa kami tadak astro. so layan yg basic jela.. uuu.. tp tu pon kdg2 TV tgk saya.. muahaha..

Ahaa.. antara iklan yg paling saya suker layan---

1- MiniCornetto
sngt comel katun pink ni.. nyam..nyam.. especially yg dia tiru gaya Donald Trump tu.. wah.. geli hati.. ekekeke.. aritu ms gi shopping kt OU, bli la mini cornetto nih.. tp dpt tupperware dia jer..tak dpt katun nih.. uhuhuu.. ade lg tak kt kdai ekk?nk gi bli la satuu..hohoho..



iklan eskerem Walls pon comei gak.. sbb lagu dia best..hehehe.. sngt suker lagu tunjukkan cintamu tuh.. comei..comeii..

2- Digi
erghh... itik digi ni mmg sngt comell.. msti slalu tgk kan iklan itik bnyk2 kna tarik oleh mgnet tuh..warghh..bunyi dia sngt cute.. uweeekkk!! ahhh.. mmg suke giler itik kuning nih.. nk pi bli la itik ni sekor.. biarla org ckp bli mainan baby ms mndi pon..sy tak kisah.. tp kan, kalo ada org bg present pon best gak.. tp sapela nk kasi kt saya kan..uhuuu..takpe..takpe.. sy pi bli sdiri la..

3- Iklan pondok2- sngt suker dgr suara bdk kecik tu sbut pondok-pondok.. huhuhu..

Pastu plak skrg.. kami serumah duk layan citer Matahari kt TV3 tuh.. main kol630pm.. citer dia biasa je pon.. tp sbb balek jer keje n tade mende nk buat, kami layan la citer ni. hahaha.. saya layan sbb lagu tema dia lagu COBA!!wah.. lagu faizal tahir.. saya suka dia.. yeay..yeay.. lagu coba tu pon mendalam giler meaning nyer..
"siapa sbnarnya aku padamu, mungkin sama dgn teman lain yg bisa kau buat begitu.."

skrg ni pon duk tgk tv gak ni.. tgk citer cinta utk ain.. aisehh... mcm2 citer melayu ni.. layan jelaaa.. lagu tema citer ni pon best.. lagu tanpa by sixth sense.. ayyyooo.. mmg jiwang n sentimental tol laaa..

okla.. oklaa.. bsar btol pengaruh TV dlm idup saya dua menjak nih.. asek duk ngadap tv je kan.. pastu ngadap tenet.. mmg tak berkembang otak saya nih.. buku 2-3 biji tu blum abes dibaca lagi.. aiyyyaaa.. buruk dimakan usia je kot.. tuannya pndai susun kt rak jer..adeiii...

nmpknya saya perlu 'mengembangkan' lagi otak n xtvt seharian saya nih.. supaya sy takdela keboringan yg bleh mengheret sy ke arah kesedihan or kemurungan.. sy perlu sibukkan diri gk so sy takdela smpt ingt perkara2 yg bleh buat sy sdeh or ape2 jela.. akan diusahakan.. COBA!COBA!!mesti berjaya.. muahahaha..